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Rip Off Alert - Ethan R

meat_to_meat
Sat, 07/02/2026 - 17:57

Since Dr Death closed my other topic here’s an update for everyone - PayPal found in favor of Ethan R and he has officially stolen $300 from me.

Avoid him at all costs. He is a liar and sells reprints as vintage shirts.


Blade of Tokyo's picture

Finally this Bullshit-Discussion has an end!

I'll avoid both of you, that sounds safe to me :)

doctordeath's picture

this is getting pretty childish from two adults, they keep bickering at eachother instead of just moving on in life

Gorgoroth's picture

Idk I'd be pretty pissed off if someone stole $300 from me

Ethan R's picture

Just to clarify: the return package arrived opened and empty. I followed PayPal’s instructions, filed an official police report, and provided photos and tracking as evidence. After reviewing everything, PayPal ruled in my favor.
Everything was handled transparently and according to their procedure. 🤷🏻

meat_to_meat's picture

You’re missing the point entirely. You sold me 2 reprints for $300. I gave you ample evidence that they were reprints and you refused to respond.

I paid $300 for 2 reprints that were worth, at most, $20 a piece.

I got multiple messages from other people that you sold them reprints. You are a rip off. You are a scammer.

doctordeath's picture

Send him the police reports you said you have and just move on in life

Ethan R's picture

I could have said no for the refund by the way

meat_to_meat's picture

What does that have to do with anything? You’re still a scammer. You charged $300 for REPRINTS. Do you have any idea how insane that is? You have no idea what the fuck you are doing. You are a piece of shit rip off scam artist.

meat_to_meat's picture

Avoid Ethan R at all costs. He sells reprints and claims they are original. I left him bad trader feedback before my other account was shut down so hopefully people will stay away. Do not trust anything he says, he has no clue what he is doing.

doctordeath's picture

guys, you've made your points, now shut the fuck up

Ethan R - i'll delete you too if you keep feeding into this guys requests for your attention

meat_to_meat's picture

I’ve asked numerous times for police reports and I have gotten nothing. I’ve given him ample evidence that his shirts are reprints and I’ve gotten nothing. Now I’m out $300. I have been transparent and posted all info in this thread, he has not done the same.

I want my $300 back.

doctordeath's picture

I'm curious to see his reports too, but i'm also getting pretty tired of both of you shitting up the forums here

GuyIncognito's picture

PayPal's decision is at least a bit weird.
According to their ToS, the seller IS responsible if items get lost in the mail, BUT you (meat_to_meat) have shown proof of delivery. I'd be very curious about the reasons for their ruling. Ethan claims the parcel was open and empty, which might constitute a "grey zone". I'd try to dispute the ruling given proof of delivery. For sellers, proof of delivery has always been enough to get it through, shouldn't be much different in your case. Maybe try to get someone from PayPal on the phone.

As to the "open parcel" Ethan claims...well, let's say, I'm having my doubts.
The Swiss postal service will not deliver open/empty parcels without notice. They will even repair or re-package parcels that are damaged, ESPECIALLY if it is an international shipment that has gone through customs (ie. weight and contents are known). There is no way that they will just drop an open, empty parcel into your mailbox. I also don't believe that a thief ripped the thing open, took the shirts and left the open container. Take away from that what you will.

Meat_to_meat, in your shoes, I'd try PayPal again. The only other chance is to file a claim with your postal service for a lost item. Show them any proof you have about the PayPal claim and the ruling. The ruling should at least state that the item got lost in transit. This might be your only way to get some of your money back. There is a snag to it, though: you told us that you didn't insure the package. I don't know how this shit works in your country, but without insurance, there usually is a limit to how much of a reimbursement you can get.

In the future, 1. keep your cool. If you suspect an item you received is a bootleg or reprint, just file a claim directly with PayPal. Don't go through TS or any other private messaging service, it's a waste of time and all it does is give room for emotions to boil. PayPal's buyer protection usually is smooth sailing.

And 2. if you don't want to lose your money, make sure to insure your parcel according to the worth of the items shipped. Especially if PayPal is involved! They have rules regarding how items need to be shipped and who is at fault if an item is damaged or lost in transit (spoiler: it is always the sender). Also, always declare the proper value of the items on the customs form. I know, in 99 out of 100 cases, everything goes smooth and easy, but there might come the one case where you will get fucked if you don't do it by the books.

To quote doctordeath: "ONLY PAY AND RECEIVE MONEY VIA PAYPAL AND **NEVER** FRIENDS AND FAMILY!!!!!",
and, if I may add to that, make use of the protections it offers and make sure to know how PayPal works in case of a dispute.

meat_to_meat's picture

I want my $300 back for the bullshit reprint shirts that Ethan R tried to pass off as original.

doctordeath's picture

Call paypal and speak nicely to them, dont use foul language like you did here, writing on this forum is not going to get your money back, you need to start making executive adult actions, speak to people, speak to paypal, speak to his postal company

I'm 100000% sure that you shitting up the forums here about it is going to have absolutely ZERO impact.

meat_to_meat's picture

PayPal found in favor of Ethan R so they took my money. It’s literally the first post in this thread. Calling them isn’t going to do anything.

I want my money back.

EvilJay's picture

If you speak to an actual human, you might be able to clear it up from your end. I once had a seller who has sent me VG items instead of M, worth 50£. So PayPal didn't decide my written complaint in my favor at first, too, so I called them, talked to a couple of people and got a 45£ refund and was also able to keep the CDs in the end. I bet that seller must still be seething. So call PayPal, explain every detail and stay calm the whole time.

meat_to_meat's picture

Guys I have called PayPal numerous times. It does nothing. It goes to a call center where I explain the situation to a different person who doesn’t understand English.

I have asked to talk to supervisors, I’ve asked to speak with the case management team, I’ve sent paypal 30 different messages explaining the situation.

THEY ARE NOT GOING TO REFUND ME.

Ethan R is a SCAMMER. He RIPPED ME OFF. PayPal is doing NOTHING to help me.

I need to see the police reports. I need to see the claim with Swiss post. Ethan has not sent me a single thing. I’m not going to stop posting about this until he sends me back my money and you people can acknowledge he is a rip off.

meat_to_meat's picture

This shit isn’t rocket science guys. I’ve been doing this stuff for half my life. I know how PayPal works. This case took 2 months for them to decide.

1. Ethan R sent me reprints, claiming they were original and selling them for $300.
2. I tell him they are reprints and he refunds me
3. His friend who he got the shirts from insults me and calls me a “Jew” and a “tourist”
4. Ethan R opens a claim saying the shirts were stolen.
5. I flip the fuck out on him because I know he’s full of shit. Ethan REFUSES to send me a police report or a claim with the Swiss post.
6. The photos he sends of the package are a ripped open envelope. The Swiss post would not deliver this. No thief would open a package, take out what’s inside, and leave the package in the mailbox.

I am out $300. Ethan R will not send me a police report or a claim from the Swiss post.

No one who moderates TSS has stepped in to make Ethan R accountable.

I demand a moderator on TSS get the police report and Swiss mail claim from Ethan R. If he is unable to do so then I demand Ethan R be banned from TSS. If you can’t see that he has ripped me off then you are blind.

doctordeath's picture

its probably best that you're both not here, i think this will be the outcome in a few days

meat_to_meat's picture

If you have the power to ban us then tell him to give you the reports or ban him. It’s called accountability. Hold Ethan R accountable for his actions. You are a neutral party, you can step in and help instead of just banning both of us.

doctordeath's picture

We are not Ethan R's parents... he's just some random guy on here

meat_to_meat's picture

You’re a moderator. Make him show the reports or ban him so he doesn’t rip off other people.

Multiple people have contacted me saying that Ethan R ripped them off with modern reprints too. Are you seriously going to let a scammer run wild on here and rip people off???

CEROXER's picture

paypal sucks---!

meat_to_meat's picture

I still haven’t seen any police reports. No one from TSS has stepped in to do anything. This guy is still scamming and I’m still out $300. It says a lot about this website and the mods here if they’ll let someone openly rip others off.

MortalCoil138's picture

What exactly do you want Doc to do? Spank his bum for misbehaving? You're both acting like children. Your fight is with Paypal, not with the general public on TSS.

meat_to_meat's picture

You need to get your eyeballs checked because I said exactly what I want him to do two comments above yours. No, my beef is not with PayPal, it's with this guy who ripped me off. I said this 3 days ago

"You’re a moderator. Make him show the reports or ban him so he doesn’t rip off other people.

Multiple people have contacted me saying that Ethan R ripped them off with modern reprints too. Are you seriously going to let a scammer run wild on here and rip people off???"

MortalCoil138's picture

I'm seriously not going to do anything, because I'm not a moderator. Pull your fucking head in and act your age. This entire website only has 1 guy running it. Good for you and your buddies, now everyone knows not to deal with you or Ethan R because you're both total tosspots.

meat_to_meat's picture

Seriously, do you know how to read? I directly replied to Doctor Death TWO COMMENTS ABOVE YOURS ABOUT WHAT I WOULD LIKE HIM TO DO.

I know you're not a moderator. I was quoting my reply to him because you asked me what I expect him to do. Let me spell this out for you as clearly as I can since you lack reading comprehension:

I expect the moderator(s) of TSS, as a neutral party, to obtain the police report and Swiss post report from Ethan R. I want proof that Ethan R filed a report with the police and the Swiss post. It's what I have been asking about for weeks.

If TSS sees these reports and determines that Ethan R did file the proper reports, I will take the loss and stop bringing this up. If Ethan R does not produce these reports, he should be banned by TSS and not be allowed to return.

It's that simple. It's the BARE MINIMUM that TSS could do but so far no one has done it.

tokmangel's picture

You simply need to realize that you have absolutely no say whatsoever in what TSS should and shouldn’t do. You say you expect TSS to do this and do that and demand how the site should be run as if you had any sort of authority here.

You have not. This is not your site. You don’t have to like it or agree with how it is operating, but please try to comprehend that you are not running this site. You can either use it or not. Anything beyond that is not up to you.

By this point this whole debacle is frankly just tiresome, annoying and childish. No one cares about your private drama. It sucks you got got, but the way you conduct yourself takes away any and all sympathy anyone may have had for you.

Please just stop this.

MortalCoil138's picture

+ one

Think both of these idiots should be banned.

meat_to_meat's picture

Cool so people will just keep getting scammed. Good to know that’s what this site endorses.

doctordeath's picture

he has a warning on his account and i asked him if he wants to leave

oldmate's picture

Are you American ? I always thought "Pull your fucking head in" was Aussie slang.

oldmate's picture

Are you American ? I always thought "Pull your fucking head in" was Aussie slang.

MortalCoil138's picture

I'm Australian, we discussed meeting up at shows lol

oldmate's picture

hhaah yea fuck your right !! the flag and a shit memory fucked me up !!

DevilzForce's picture

Just ip ban them both doc.... this is getting ridiculous.

meat_to_meat's picture

You know VPN’s exist right?

Antemortem's picture

Move on, man. You're harping on about something that's already been resolved, unfortunately for you it went badly.
Even if he gets banned, it won't get your money back.
File a complaint against PayPal and let the case run its course. Contact the your country authorities if necessary and forget about TSS.
Just my 2 cents.

xXtastyautopsyXx's picture

at this point just get a job and get paid $300

meat_to_meat's picture

I have a job. Would you like it if someone came up to you and took $300 out of your wallet?

oldcoffinspirit's picture

I wonder how all this could happen as meat_to_meat said (to me some time ago and apparently to everyone he ever ever talked to) that he has been doing this business longer than all of us?!
I would have never sent unregistered/without insurance. That was his fault. BTW… Isn‘t return postage even paid by Paypal?

meat_to_meat's picture

Another person who has no idea how things work. I sent back a return for a refund with tracking. I didn’t insure the package because the shirts were reprints. They weren’t worth anything.

PayPal does not pay return postage. You’re just making shit up at this point.

frankie530's picture

Can’t you appeal the PayPal decision? I think just take it up there if possible if you haven’t already tried to get a higher up department maybe they can assist you?

meat_to_meat's picture

Brother read the thread. I have called PayPal and tried. I’m fucked. This guy stole $300 from me.

I hope he’s banned by now.

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