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All the girls I personally know that like metal are gross :(
Haha gross? Damn...like what makes them gross?
When they try so hard to be metal they come across as manly. I like metal chicks that aren't a clone of me, otherwise it's just too weird!
BlueEyedBeast on
I know exactly what you mean.. :/
Me being a girl, I know how hard it is to be feminine and metal at the same time. You see, metal is a boys club. It does not necessarily exclude girls but it seems to be more readily attributed to men than women. For all that metal does, it's never feminine. The genre seems to revel in the fact that it's masculine. The riffs are low pitched, it's fast and dark and the vocals (for the most part) are growled or screamed. None of these are woman friendly. But we still embrace it.
agreed!
not all girls in metal are gross. Just the ones that don't know how to be girls in the first place.
Yeah that's true, I just meant the ones I've met around here are gross. I guess it's yet another factor in my desire to relocate in the near future. Haha
hahahahahahahaha
HAHAHAHAHAHA
R.J. on
Thats why you have to find an attractive girl first and THEN turn her into a metalhead. Thats what I did with my girlfriend, haha.
Ironhead on
Wtf, that's the most retarded thing to do.
R.J. on
Much appreciated! I'd say it's even more retarded to date a girl you don't find attractive, what is probably what your ugly ass has to do.
...Because it is so unheard of to introduce someone to metal. Fucking asshole.
Ironhead on
Didn't notice you had replied...
Introducing is a bit different than "TURNING", eh? And anyway, she will most probably be listening to your favorite bands only as long as you two are dating, then change her appearance and musical tastes when the next boyfriend comes. Woohoo. I've seen that enough already so much from females that I rarely take their musical tastes seriously anymore. A few exceptions,girls I really know well.
Due to mental problems I'm not dating at all but thanks for your concern. If I would, I'd rather date someone who would listen to whatever she really likes herself (be it something else than metal) than have her suddenly listening to my fave bands.
R.J. on
You took my comment too seriously. I wasn't actually suggesting that I "turned" my girlfriend into a metalhead. It was a joke. She knew a lot of the more mainstream bands already. But of course after being around me a lot and hearing what I was listening to, she was introduced to a lot of new bands. And as a matter of fact, most of her favorite bands now are bands I don't even listen to.
Ironhead on
Good for you two then. Still standing behind my earlier comment though, there are far too many cases like that.
Ironhead on
Good for you two then. Still standing behind my earlier comment though, there are far too many cases like that.
R.J. on
Ok. And I would agree with your previous comment if my post was supposed to be taken 100% seriously.
Cannibal Lecter on
hope Im not one of them ;) haha move to frickin vegas with me dude!! or LA.
Haha, no. I was only referring to girls that I had known at that time. The post has lost its relevance to me as the disgusting women who did know me no longer even know what city I live in, and my original statement definitely does not apply to any girls on this site at all!
Cannibal Lecter on
haha kickass!!!!
come on bro that cant be true. the most 'metal' the gross chicks get is Avenge Sevenfold lol
>/// ' > Anja < ' \\\<
There aren't enough of us. All my metalhead friends are guys. I try and get other girls into metal so that it's not just me and the guys, but that's easier said than done. For anyone. The very few metalhead girls I have met [that were actually metalheads] were all older than me and I couldn't get over how badass they were. But the fake ones were , um, fake. As for what people think of me as a metalchick, most people think it's "pretty cool" and then they get over it and just think of me as that short girl into fish and heavy metal music. Sort of like part of my personality. Guys are metalheads, girls are "obsessed with metal". Probably if I was taller I'd be more called a metalchick. But I think so long as my physical description, and I quote "if she isn't wearing a homeade vest thing covered with metal band logos, she's wearing a black t-shirt with some metal band on it", I think I fit the definition. End rant.
Um....well what does being short have to do with anything? And well yeah there isn't enough metalhead chicks...but I still wouldnt wanna get a girl into metal....cause that's idk dumb I guess. I rather just meet girls that were already into it...even tho there older haha. It's all good. Okayyyyy haha.
>/// ' > Anja < ' \\\<
I'm not sure about being short, I've been trying to figure that out. I look younger because I'm short, so that makes my being into metal more anachronistic and less badass. And, yeah, I'd rather meet a girl already into metal, but I can't find any. Also, I sort of like introducing people to metal. For like five minutes. The older girls, yeah, I like them, but it's that I'm younger.
>/// ' > Anja < ' \\\<
Responding to additional information: Yes, I'm into fish as much as I'm into metal, meaning I have two tanks and spend ten hours a week working and hanging out at the aquarium. I'm fifteen, unfortunately. But I look even younger most of the time.
Nice to meet you fellow female metalhead/aquarist/15 yr old :P
iambadcompany on
This is Not a date chat room.......
Slaughter Lord on
Not? Does that mean I have to put some pants on?
You're into fish?
+1
+2
maybe meant fishnet or something?
How old are you? :o
jeremybassmetal on
Wut? girls in my metal? no way...... haha jk there needs to be moar! haha
I agree haha.
mayhempunk666 on
there needs to be way more girls in metal, the ones i know are good looking, but i personally find goth and punk girls to be more attractive
girls and metal !!!!!!!!!!!! five flames
I don't know any chick metalheads face to face (though I've met a couple ofc), only a few with a good enough appreciation for a few solid bands, whether that was due to my influence or not.
What do I think of them? Same I think of metalhead guys, really. They can be incredibly interesting people worth spending hours upon hours of time with, or they can be scum. It's like that way with all people.
+1
ShieldbitersValhalla on
It is an incredible thing, when you are talking to someone about random stuff, then you get to the topic of music; and they say: "Oh you know, mostly rock", Me: "Oh? What kind of rock?" Them: "I guess like heavy metal." Me: "......how heavy?" Them: *Starts naming bands you jam*. But there is nothing quite like meeting a really smart and attractive girl that listens to at least some of the same stuff. Recently I've met a girl that listens to some of the basics, and she really digs Amon Amarth! I showed her a shit load of folk metal that I thought she would like(and that I want her to listen to, haha). I am always trying to turn people onto more good stuff.
metal chicks never care enough about the music lol
theyre always like, "nvm which bands on the radio" as far as i can remember the ones ive seen/know bla
>/// ' > Anja < ' \\\<
If metalchicks don't care about the music, they're not metalchicks. I mean, how so would they be? It doesn't even make sense. I am a metal chick primarily because I listen to the music non-stop and, yeah, care about it. In my state, there are literally no metal bands on the radio. I am a female who comes from the metal culture.
with radio i meant cd player. in my language its like a synonym, sorry.
and i meant the ones ive seen seem to listen to it but not care about it.
like they know bands and stuff but know nothing about them.
good to see girls being really into metal.
ShieldbitersValhalla on
Ah, it makes more sense now. Ich jetzt verstehen besser.
Ironhead on
Haha indeed, they got patches and shirts but most likely no records. "My boyfriend has them so why would I need to buy any?"
And when you ask what's the best in their favourite band "well the singer is sooooo cute".... And it's just the sad truth that a big part of the "girls into metal" are making this stereotype true.
Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat. As said before, Then they arent metal chicks. lol.
DoctorDeath on
Usually they just turn up their nose and stereotype you as soon as you say you like metal.
Now I just change the subject unless they want to talk about something specific then i am all words :D
well the most girls you see at metal concerts here are...
fat and ugly, i would say...
and pierced whereas its possible.
i dont like this. of course there are some "nicer" looking but
yeh you dont really see em round here lol
lak89 on
May I also add that the majority of female metal heads I've seen at concerts all look goth and wear really thick eyeliner, I'm not sure if it's just me, but that's the trend I see at shows and on facebook as well. Of course there are exceptions, I was at a metal festival a few days ago and met a couple of girls there that don't fit into this stereotype. Apart from that, 70-80% of females I see at shows try to look as "dark' as possible but I don't see this trend in males, could a female metalhead here shed some light on this?
Well I'm a female....and I don't agree with you haha. I've seen some really gorgeous metalhead girls. Who aren't all dark haha.
lak89 on
Haha I see, then it's most likely coincidental then, I dislike generalizing people and the females I've met at shows (makeup or not) have been great people to talk to, some were less approachable of course, but you get my drift.
Haha yes! :)
Yeah, this is mostly what I notice as well
PowerThrashingDeath on
Metal is een mannensport
PowerThrashingDeath on
If they aren't fat goth cows it's cool:P
haha well said man totally agree
IronMason on
+over 9000 omfg yes.
I'm so done with emo cows man!
Metaalharses on
kutschurft
I probably collect more CDs and shirts than most guys into metal.
bayernpirat on
+1 and you have a really fuckin great battle vest
Ohh and I wear all black... wear dark make up if I am going out and colour my hair black... Booo fucking whoo! It's personal taste.
I'll also state this: glam metal chicks are hot! Why don't they appear to be around anymore?
jeremybassmetal on
ewww glam chicks probably have aids..haha
Stronthor on
this made me laugh so hard I almost spit a double shot of vodka into my keyboard, thanks a lot asshole XD
jeremybassmetal on
hehe thats mah job
haha +1
I know right!?
Those chicks from Poison... rrrrrrawr!
Haha!
hahahahahaha!!!!!!
Not that I feel like I need to defend heavy metal chicks at any rate, but for every ugly metal chick there's 30 ugly guy metalheads. Not that looking attractive is meant to be important in the subculture of heavy metal at all...
lak89 on
The gift of death metal does not smile on the good looking :)
Strongbad!
Fuck yeah bro!
Yes it does!
I'm good looking (and a man :P ) :D
*make these people understand some irony, please!*
Tico Tyrant on
Women are nice,and great to have at concerts, period. The fact that any would be into metal is a bonus, of course looks can help, but nobody is perfect...and looks really shouldn't be all we consider..well..that's just the way I regard this idea.That being said though, someone who looks great, well...looks great! No point in denying it. Though I did make a recent friend at a concert, and she loves Watain and music like that...^_^ and she's a looker and a half!*which is like a bonus*
ShieldbitersValhalla on
Haha fuck yeah!
its the most beutiful thing in the world. well that is if there godd lookin. if a hot metal chick is wearing a band shirt thats enough to turn my head but if there ugly nahh. but thats the way i am
Goddes of Desire on
Are you turning your head to look at the shirt or something else? haha
you know;)
Goddes of Desire on
It's true that metal is a male dominated genre. At shows all the girls can be counted on one hand.But I think girls can listen to metal just like the men. It's just a matter of taste and it happens that men like it better than chicks.
What I dislike about metalchicks is when fat ones wear too tight shirts, so you can see all the fatrolls. Or girls wearing oversized shirts. I always try to look feminine, wearing heels and tight pants/shirts.
Well if everybody thought this way ^^
Yeah I agree with you. I cut most of my shirts to tank tops, tighter jeans. I wear hi-tops or boots though cause I love to pit. Wearing heels would be wayy too uncomfortable at a show:/
i completely agree. except not all my tees are tanks. 99% of the time i wear my boots, rain or shine. show or no show.
The_Black_Sleep on
There's alot more of you than you think, its just you're all scattered so it doesn't look that way haha
Metal is een mannesport
PowerThrashingDeath on
hey dikke lul met vingers die had ik al gezegt :P
the world needs more hot metal chicks
megadeth1818 on
my bedroom needs more hot metal chicks :)
haha good one man! keep playing with mutant disease and I'm sure you'll get loads!!!!!
Rover133 on
Fully agree with Afro Destucto (and others) that "the world needs more hot metal chicks. And I'll also add I don't care if they are hot or not - just come out and bang your head with the rest of us.
BlueEyedBeast on
On the topic of women in metal, I can't get over this pic of Jex Thoth; http://a4.l3-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/49/b108cc7e5b16b847d92fa5854...
-_____- what difference does it make what gender you are?
Also just because a girl is a slut doesn't mean she doesn't really like the music.
Really! So judgemental guys
And you know what even if they're only in it for the guys they're still supporting the bands you love
Spending money to see them and on their merch
so even they have their purpose! <3
.
REAL Metal girls are few and far between. I don't count the skeezes that show up in kuttes that are obviously their boyfriend's or wear a random Bathory shirt and eyeliner just to look cool, but the ones that are actually into it and we can talk about it. Chances are most girls are just there to be trophies/slobber posts for some guy who couldn't leave his wench unattended for a night, or some asshole paid for them to get in when they didn't feel like barhopping.
I saw a girl wearing a goddamn Love Pink hoodie at a Sepultura show, and since free tix were being given out over the past week, I'm a bit suspicious of her presence being anything close to congenial to the metal faith... In short, real metal girls are awesome, and they will more than likely stand out when every other chick is out to bang Blackguard's bassist or something. Cheers.
It's delicious.. but too many getting around in fagcore metal shirt >:(
Wanna know how you can tell the posers from the true fans?
Look at their fucking collection!
That simple.
Ohh and if they can only name In Flames for Swedish Death Metal.
Albtraum on
Sad thing: This fits to nearlly every women in "metal" I know... One "metal girl" even said to me Death and Black Metal are the same.
TheWitchburner on
One thing : KAT
The Polish band? hahah
TheWitchburner on
Hehe :P The GREAT KAT!
Marci on
Their music is better but I'd say The Great KAT is a lot hotter :D
IronMason on
not you're talking about me right. :P lul
Not a guy... but most metal chicks I've seen are fat, not attractive to me, or don't have any respect for themselves. Plus, most girls that claim they're into metal listen to music like Avenged Sevenfold, BMTH, or other lame shit. I don't mind dating an average looking metal chick, as long as she isn't too big and hasn't been around then I could probably date her.
Looks aren't that important... but are a plus. Most important thing is her taste in music and if we share the same interests.
Thats way true!
Most so called metalhead girls I've met are all posers. They just join the scene for attention from guys, its annoying as fuck. I wish they were more of us who actually dedicated themselves to metal:/
PerkeleKyrpä on
I know what you mean, my EX-girlfriend wanted to come with me to sonisphere 2010 and eventually did. Then after that she DOWNLOADED anthrax's discography, got a modest kutte and was...a huge poser.
My girlfriend listens to alot of the stuff i do, and every once in a while she will find her own band that she likes, but shes not into it as much as i am (but most people aren't). But she also hates poser metal sluts ALOT. She get's noticed by other guys and sometimes talks to them about bands which i think is cool (i dont mind her talking to other guys casually). She's just glad i dont listen to deathcore or cradle of filth.
meaningless on
The Metal-scene dont have enough girls. Thats a fact. It didnt changed the last 20 years (thats the time im listen to metal) and it will not change in the next 20 years. ..a shame...
The most metalchicks are....hm...how i say that :P
The girl looks same then the guys around her, the most didnt look like a girl anymore.... with a few exceptions, for sure! ;)
I've been curious about this for a while: When you see a hot girl at a show, do you find yourself assuming she just came with or for a guy and isn't really there for the show? I've asked dudes, seems like the hotter the girl, the less 'metal'.
I don't think attractiveness makes a difference. Unless sleazy dressed counts as attractive. Its pretty obvious who is posing and who isn't. Usually the girls in the Metallica shirts standing in the back. I'd get pissed if someone said I was a poser just because I was pretty.
jeremybassmetal on
your a poser cause your pretty
That's what I was talking about. Looks like my question's answered.
trololol
I'm a chick, and I just don't follow my guy to shows. I usually decide which shows to go to and bring him along!
metal community= massive cock fest lol XD
please don't remind us
meaningless on
lmao, indeed :P
PowerThrashingDeath on
haha, it's sad but true
If it's a massive cock fest I wonder why there's not too much women.
Blüdrayne on
because its a sad reality that most metal dudes are rather unattractive.
The_Black_Sleep on
I know its an old thread but for any chicks on FB this girl I know runs a page supporting metal babes. She's one herself www.facebook.com/realmetalchicks
Coming from a girl saying this, I love chicks and metal. I just.. wish I can find one that's gay. XD
iambadcompany on
I am pretty sure there are some on here lol
oh this site? Tried. Profile surfed hundreds of times. Closest one I found was IronMason.
I've looked at concerts as well, majority of the time they're with some guy, so I'll assume they're with their boyfriend. I'm not the most social person out there. XD
Hmmmm. I might be of some assistance. Us in the LGBT community have it pretty hard in metal as far as finding someone. As far as the internet goes, there are quite a few LGBT pages. I'm on the one on Facebook. I met my now long-distance relationship through there. I've seen a couple bi/lesbian girls on there. Don't worry, there are some legit fans. You have to make yourself known. Post more often basically. If I knew you in person, I would be able to help you out more. But, this is all I can do for now. Best of luck to ya!
http://www.facebook.com/groups/63520857153/
I guess I'm reposting? But I can't resist this topic: hottest women in metal!!!! My votes go to Amber Valentine (holy shit), karyn crisis and the girl who sings for iskra. And kembra pfahler. Her band might not be metal, but she's the most metal motherfucker
Tico Tyrant on
I saw a girl on the skytrain, in an Inquisition shirt the other day, with long flowing black hair!!!!.....I think for a second I was purely spellbound by my immediate visual perception!!! .......well this totally contradicts part of what I said earlier, but metal chicks are really fucking awesome!
+1
ShieldbitersValhalla on
+1
Plague on
All the metal girls i've seen on here are goooood loooking!
meaningless on
well...have also to agree on that!!! Its interesting, all girls here are rly looking good, thats a rare thing.
...the reality looks much different :P
Sometimes i fear that my eyes will start to bleed lol
Plague on
lol
THIS!
Girls on this site all seem to be good looking. Real life, not so much :(
Being a girl, I must say that there's a lot of chicks who think they are metal and listen to Korn and Slipknot an that stuff. We have to make a metalchick crusade to open the minds of the females and make a better world!!!
Okay, I must admit that I'm not too femenine, a 95% of my wardrobe are men's clothes, but they are so cool and comfy, I also play male-oriented games like Wolfenstein, Killzone, Burnout and God Of War, I'm often confused with a lesbian.
I'm not hot, but I can make a man happy, I'm always making jokes, I make good sandwiches and I know how to restring a guitar, so...*shrugs*
(What a speech...)
"im not hot, but i can make a man happy. [..] i make good sandwhiches" best line EVER.
im pretty intrigued with most of the stuff said on here. everything that i would have said has already been told, so, i guess my take on this is that i go to shows for the music.
i might not be the hottest, or thinnest girl there but i go to shows for the music and only that.
i do admit, there are a lot of gross looking girls, among the obnoxious drunken sluts, but, i dont see why that matters. if they like good music then that should be that.
i do enjoy how underground the real metal scene is and i will show people bands but not if i dont think theyll appreciate it. which, most people dont these days.
and honestly, how could a girl look super appealing after enjoying themselves at a good show? i dont think ive ever stood in the back or came out of a great show looking like i did when i first arrived.i aim to look decent when i go out, regardless of where it is, but at shows ill be sweaty from the pit, or dirty and bloody even, or ill just be a hot mess after headbanging around everyones body heat all the way in the front of the stage.
i dont know where this is going, sorry, long rant.
Metalchicks are extinct in my area, we only got scene/emo girls, who are annoying as hell. I've only met rocker-chicks who are into Led Zeppelin, Alice In Chains, and Nirvana who hate Metal music and think Slipknot are "cute". Damn, Its hard to find fellow metal girls or even metalheads in general. I've got maybe 3 real metalhead friends.
"I beat the shit out of some kids today. But it was for a purpose. It made me feel good about myself. It was like I did something constructive with my life or something, I dunno, like I accomplished something" - Billy Bob Thornton(Bad Santa)
LaUlvenDrepe on
Female metalheads are a special breed :) I like a chick who is into metal, but not as much as I am. I mean, I definitely don't want to date myself in woman form... that would suck. It would also be one hairy chick! She would probably have at least one of those girl mustaches, and a few goatee hairs, haha. I also don't like extremely girly girls, just someone in between with similar tastes to mine, but not too many.
i got a girl mustache.
bush too? hahaha XD
Can't live without it!
ToxikAssault on
My long thick hair and leather jacket seems to attract metal and rocker chicks. Too bad I'm the shyest guy in the world!
Last Christmas I were at this concert and one rocker chick started to talk to me. She was really pretty and everything, but I was so nervous that I really couldn't talk back even though I wanted to!
A few beers and everyone gets talking :D
Anyways, just don't worry about it. I'm also not the one who takes home girl after girl. One day it just works and that's going to be it.
PerkeleKyrpä on
Yhdyn :(
Tico Tyrant on
Use it to your advantage, most metal lovin' women I've been lucky enough to meet don't like short hair, let alone people who *are* short. Ideally women who appreciate us as who we are are supreme in my mind, and I could give a fuck about the rest.Of course, similar music taste is good, but if you have something working in your favor,such as you do, don't waste it, don't let those gene's fail you. Get over being shy by networking more, then meet up with some of the people you network with, that's what I've started to do and it helps! I would also go with the casual drinks suggestion, but ideally just be yourself....I get nervous around some women as well, but if you take charge that's the best you can do ! ~cheers
i get nervous around legit metal guys. but, nobody ever approaches me other than to comment or take pictures of my tattoos. i drink regardless haha, lightens up the mood. just sayin, doesnt work out for a lot of us lol
Albtraum on
I'm sorry but, if we'll met, I'd babble at least two hours about your awesome tatoos, too! :)
I could not complain about most metal girls around. Of course there are some ugly (really ugly) women walking around, but generally speaking most girls I've ever met at concerts/festivals were pretty good looking i.e. hot.
But this might also be down to the fact that I'm actually young(er than most guys here) and so these girls are.
Talking about girls in general, I think metal chicks are always more manly than the "other girls". Strong music - strong women. I myself would not like this type of woman in a relationship, it just doesn't work out, especially if she's into a different kind of metal than you are (in my case she was into shitty Black Metal and DSBM and I'm a full-on Death Metal maniac). Interests collide.
there are fairly manly girls who in relationships or other than music are pretty girly though. i know myself, i can be pretty manly at times, (usually shows) pitting, or wrestling with the guys and practically being one around my buds, but im fairly girly as well. i do my hair and makeup (or attempt it) every day amongst other ladylike things.
but, everyone is different.
whats funny is guys are so picky: not metal enough, or too metal that they are manly.
as if having the same interests wasnt good enough they can be too into metal? or not girly enough?
one thing i hate is seeing a metal guy dating a girl that has no interest (more so respect) for metal.
just feel like us ladies can never win :/
Well, it was probably a matter of her obstinacy.
There's a small edge region between "Yes, I listen to metal and nothing more" and "Oh, look at yourself, your taste in metal sucks", which is still OK, but the last extreme sucks and the first would probably (for the metal related guy) feel like he's talking to someone who is simply not interested.
Metal+Metal relationship can only work when both man and woman have the same idea of metal, I guess.
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